Chechen leader ‘chides WhatsApp gossipers ridiculing teen bride marriage’
The gossipers in question were caught discussing the controversial wedding between Nazhud Guchigov, a 46-year-old police commander in Nozhay-Yurtovsky district, and a 17-year-old girl named Kheda (Louisa) Goylabiyeva, local Grozny TV channel reported.
Kadyrov is said to have given the WhatsAppers a lecture,
stressing how sensitive the exposure of private lives is for
Chechens: “You are torturing people. Would you like it if you
were discussed like that? Do you know what happens when you
slander a girl’s good name? You become an enemy and vendetta is
He advised those spreading gossip online to refrain from “using WhatsApp.”
“Be Chechens, think of your children. Family honor is the
most important thing, don’t let anyone slander it. Don’t write in
WhatsApp. Men, make your women leave the [WhatsApp] groups,”
The Chechen channel aired Kadyrov’s chiding as a video of it was recorded and later posted online.
It wasn’t clear how the Head of the Chechen Republic got hold of
the alleged messages that “ridiculed the wedding.”
On Thursday, Kadyrov, himself an avid Instagram user, posted his criticism of social media for “spreading made-up stories, slandering people” and in this way “misleading the [Chechen] population.” He added that he had discussed the issue with his recently appointed minister of national policy, Djambulat Umarov, and the heads of local TV channels on Tuesday.
It is not the first time Kadyrov has taken on WhatsApp. In March,
he proposed limiting access to messaging applications and social
networks, saying they help spread rumors.
“You do not need to display your life to the public. My wife and children do not use social networks, they don’t have separate accounts,” he said.
Guchigov and Goylabiyeva got married in the Chechen capital on
May 16. Kadyrov attended the ceremony calling it the “wedding
of the century.”
While not exactly unusual for Chechnya, the wedding of the middle-aged man and his teenage bride sparked public outrage after reports in Russian media claimed that Goylabiyeva had been “forced into it.” It was rumoured that she had even been prevented from leaving her home by checkpoints set up by the police chief. Human rights activists cried foul over claims that the family faced threats of reprisals. Moreover, reports said that Guchigov was already married with children.
However, family members later denied that there had been any pressure on them, or that they had spoken to the media about the allegations. Goylabiyeva’s mother claimed that she supported her daughter’s will.
Kadyrov refuted the claims saying that a trusted individual had
visited the bride-to-be and confirmed her and the family’s
approval of the arrangement.
Before the wedding, Russia’s Human Rights ombudswoman Ella Pamfilova appealed to Pavel Astakhov, Russia’s children’s ombudsman, to look into the circumstances of the wedding.
Astakhov clarified that in Russia, “family law states that in exceptional cases that minimum age is established by regional authorities. In Chechnya that age is 17, in Bashkortostan it is 14, in Moscow region it is 16.”
“There are also regions without a minimum established age. In the Caucasus, emancipation and puberty take place earlier, let’s not be prude about this. There are places where women are all wrinkled up by age 27, and by our standards these women look 50. And anyway, the constitution says we can’t interfere in the personal affairs of citizens,” the ombudsman added.
Astakhov later had to apologize for his remark on ‘wrinkled women’ as his statement caused further controversy. In response, a petition calling for his resignation was launched on Change.org which had gathered over 33,000 signatures by Wednesday.