Inter-racial dating taboo leaves Israeli society divided
Published: 22 July, 2010, 08:32
Edited: 30 July, 2010, 05:57
TAGS: Religion, Middle East
Inter-racial dating is a taboo in Israel. In a Jerusalem suburb there are special patrol groups that prevent Arab men mixing with Jewish women, and couples who mutually choose to rebel are ostracized.
A Jewish Jerusalem suburb Pisgat Ze’ev in Northern Jerusalem is surrounded by Arab neighborhoods, and there are hardly any signs that a culture of tolerance is being cultivated. Vigilante-style Jewish patrol groups, calling themselves “Fire For Judaism” stand watch outside the local shopping mall. Their mission is to prevent Arab men mixing with local Jewish girls.
The municipality is so afraid of inter-racial dating that it has created a 24-hour hotline where parents and friends can phone to rat on Jewish girls breaking this taboo. A specially trained team of counselors and psychologists is on standby to rescue them.
“It is important to safeguard our traditions, culture, history and identity because without these, who are we? From my experience I can say that the chances for a healthy relationship between an Israeli Jewish woman and an Arab man are very, very low. It is because of the great differences between these two cultures,” Alina from Yad L’Achim organization explained.
The most recent case involves an Arab man who posed as a Jewish bachelor. A Jewish woman agreed to have sex with him – but after she found out he was an Arab, and not a Jew, she filed a police complaint.
The courts took the case so seriously that Sabbar Kashur has now been convicted of rape by deception and sentenced to 18 months in prison. The judge said he had an obligation to protect the public from sophisticated criminals who could mislead innocent victims. Kashnur denies pretending to be Jewish and is going to appeal his conviction.
Arabs make up a fifth of Israel’s population, but relationships between Arabs and Jews are rare. Former Minister for Jerusalem Affairs in the Palestinian Authority Ziad Abu Zayyad says fights break out almost weekly in night clubs and other public places over the matter. It is not religion, he says – it is racism.
“There are Jewish gangs that are against any relationships between Jewish girls and non-Jewish men and they hunt Jewish girls. Even those who go out to a pub or to a restaurant or anywhere with an Arab guy and threaten them and force them to break the relations with Arab guys,” the former minister said.
One inter-racial couple told RT that in the two years they have been together, they have never been threatened physically. He is Muslim, she is Jewish. Now, however, they are thinking about leaving Israel because they say it is simply too difficult.
“When my family found out, they were very adamant about cutting me off on every level for acting as a traitor to everybody and for being Israeli and making that choice,” the woman told RT.
Israeli parliamentarians are considering a law that requires prospective Israeli citizens to declare loyalty to Israel as a “Jewish, democratic state”. Arab Israelis are furious – most refuse to swear allegiance to a state they believe explicitly excludes and marginalizes them.
Dana Pugach, head of the Noga Center for Victims of Crime, thinks it would not have made a difference had a Jewish man pretended to be an Arab to entice an Arab woman to have a romantic relationship with him.
“If it was brought into court, I don’t think it would have been different,” Pugach said. “The first case, the proceeding that we had last year, was of a prominent Jewish person who misled very poor Jewish and non-Jewish women to believe that he would help them financially [in exchange for sex].”
Meanwhile, political analyst Gideon Levy says the issue of deception is only an excuse to cover-up a story of racism and “male chauvinism.”
“[Deception] was not the issue,” Levy said. “The real issue was that he was a Muslim, but pretended to be a Jew. And this is the sub-text of the whole thing.”
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It is natural for humans to prefer their own race or kind. This is also true in the animal kingdom. Do green snakes breed with black snakes? Would a copperhead breed with a cobra? Contrary to what the controlled news media preaches, most races prefer their own race. Black is beautiful. Brown is beautiful. Yellow is beautiful. Caucasion is beautiful, etc. Be thankful for who and what you are, not what the billionaire news network tycoon's propaganda tells you. NO WORRY, BE HAPPY.
I am shock to see the people I sympathized with for the horrors of World War II, now adapted the similar methods of their adversary, the Third-Reich. Racism is wrong and should not be condone by any nation. The Israeli knows better, they have been he victims of racism, bigotry and annihilations from the Third Reich and other countries of Europe and they cried foul more than any ethic group in history. This tells the world how hypocrite they were when they were powerless, and how cruel they are when empowered.












I am a man who is Jewish by birth and I will tell you I always preferred non-Jewish women. So from my point of view these guys are actually helping the Arabs avoid an unpleasant relationship. Of course there is probably a shortage of women in the Arab world because of the multiple wives thing.
Maybe they should encourage their sisters to date Chinese. I know they have a serious shortage of women due to "cutting off their noses to spite their face". At least that way they might be able to get some decent Chinese food in the family.
But I am probably wrong on both counts. Women have always been seducers and deceiver not men. Men are womanizers, women are womynizers. All the world loves women especially me!